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Sound and Fury

Male (40) looking for Male New York, New York, United States

I'm a tech type with a background in mathematics and computing. However, I've been a voracious reader since I was very young, so I counterbalance my computer-nerdiness with book-nerdiness.

I'm also a recent transplant to NYC because I am absolutely love the city. I hope to be like Quentin Crisp, feeling like I'm in heaven here until the day I die. So far, so good!

I haven't dated in quite awhile and am probably pretty horrible at it. But, I am really good at making friends and keeping them. So, I kind of really want to do that first here in NYC.

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Sex Preferences

Use condomsYes, Condoms only
I preferTop / Versatile
I'm aChub
DemeanorMasculine
OutEveryone knows
HIV StatusNegative

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageGerman
BuildCurvy
Height180 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairShaved
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsYes
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyComputers / Electronic

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Oddities
My perfect matchSomeone with levity, someone who is light-hearteded and optimistic. A person who laughs with complete innocence. But, still someone with a head on their shoulders, who protects those he loves, is introspective, and thinks about the world.
Our first dateSomething to distract my ass from the fact that I am so uncomfortable with dating. Once I get to know someone, I'm not anxious, but I have too much empathy maybe to date well.

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:At least once a day
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkDepends on my mood
Night life:Intimate gatherings in my home, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexI've never tried it
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:None of the above
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":I try to be GGG, but I am not really interested in gold-digging, watersports, or physical kink. Emotional or psychological kink interests me but I don't need it and I don't really have a fetish except for "undressing" someone. I like to do that!